Skip to main content

What You are - Defining it


When we are jostling with different questions regarding our social behavior for bigger issues such as women empowerment, social life, I ponder why there is such prejudice. Are we responsible? Not the absurdity to look down at any woman with constricted views of household or community values is deriding us of important decisions and self assertion. 

When in society be local or abroad, we confirm to certain beliefs. We carry with us certain traditions which are well respected and if not, can be collaborated with certain evidence that are acknowledged given a case. Certain new theories are often forming and laws are often modified to include the evolving practices anywhere for men and women alike.

Thus, what are these entities. Having an ideology such as Gandhism can help a humanitarian do job anywhere in the world. Confirming to professional etiquette, the diseases are easily diagnosed with exception of long-formed personal habits. Vast experience in certain field or valuable upbringing can make us believe in exceptional works by women. 

 What exactly then we are not concurring to? We face challenges in our day to day life. These challenges require our enlightened attitude. If we continue to look at ourselves in negativity and seek a mass assertion, we will fail. Instead if we learn what might take us forward, discuss the matter with our counterpart, debate extensively about various pros and cons, we can lead.

Women are understood to follow, not lead. They are tamed to speak softly, not assert. They are provided for livelihood, rather than earn for livelihood. However, now they get resources as their male colleagues then exactly is it patriarchy, home duties, stress due to health, larger family roles which are keeping them mute and behind the league.

It is important that when the world can capture easily any rumors spread on external appearances and behaviors, we should be taking the facts we have become so far. Small details add to the case which can be important to real people who are involved in other real situations in life. We should not be crying over simple prejudices but stand to bigger version of ourselves.  

I think we can lead, we should lead.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

A Visit to Lake - (For Now)

Early last month, the sense was chaotic. On contrast watching people go to their businesses on a relatively cloudy day, a sudden thrush was beginning of climate change in this region, I was unsure of visiting lake (artificially developed) Sector 42, Chandigarh. 

The nature has serenity, there is little excuse for a poet. Few timid steps were to escape the formalities like greeting at entrance or stand before marvelous structures, nevertheless I am ardent devotee of Chandigarh architecture. Nothing further let me escape a heron's silent walk across grass, fresh cut grass, water seeping beneath a bridge and ignoring the oblivion an honest urge to reach the waters first.

The lake as it is stood beautiful without a reflection of clouds or sky, bounded by sitting platform which one reminds of comfort and invigorating view. Otherwise undulating with one so serene, from the uppermost platform the eye travels from this shore to last filled with hues. The poem has to be born and "For No…